I've explained our Wednesday ritual before, but this is for the new(er) people to this site. You see, Wednesday is date night. You thought I was married? I am. And I think date night is an important tradition that keeps us closer and keeps our marriage fresh. It began when we were dating.
Our schedules were very busy at the time, but Wednesday was free for both of us. It was the hubby’s idea to take me out for dinner every Wednesday. Over time we started calling it “date night”. If friends wanted us to do something on Wednesday, we responded, “Sorry, that’s our date night!”
Date night consists of dinner and sometimes a movie or shopping trip if there is a gift or joint purchase we need to make. Sometimes date night includes our boys or friends and family, but most of the time it’s just the two of us. We both look forward to spending time together and it gives us a chance to catch up on what’s going on the rest of the week. I look forward to not having to cook! Not that I cook all that much, but I look for every excuse not to.
Having date night on Wednesday works because restaurants are less crowded, which means less wait time for a table and more privacy. It also makes the week go by quicker as you have one more thing to look forward to. And the biggest bonus is we never call Wednesday “hump” day because it’s date night. I strongly recommend date night for all couples whether married or dating. Heck, it’s not exclusive to couples—grab a friend and celebrate Wednesday.
And, with that, we’re off to dinner with the boys—it’s a family date night this time. Enjoy your evening!
that is so cute. my ex never had the time for me b/c he was so busy with work. funny thing is he always found the time for his music, for intramural hockey on the weekends, season tix to the LA Kings, time to go out with the guys, etc. I asked him to make me a priority in his life & that if he didn't make the time for me there never would be any time. I asked for a date night once a week. I never got it. I guess that's why he's an ex? Yeah, I sound bitter. I can't help it.
Posted by: sarah | Saturday, May 22, 2004 at 02:28 PM