Hello!
It's been a while, I know. I lost focus and motivation for everything: the blog and the remodel project. And I think I know where I went wrong.
First of all, I have ADD--maybe even ADHD. On top of that, I'm pretty much the only one driving this operation. My husband has very little interest in this and only steps in to assist when he's afraid that I might royally mess something up--such as wiring or lifting something heavy. Mix that all together, my friends, and it's a recipe for crickets on this blog and half finished projects all over this house.
Here are some of the things I started last year and have yet to finish:
- I spray painted the chandelier in the dining room, but never touched up some spots along the base, so it looks anything but finished.
- I taped the dining room, but never painted the ceiling.
- In the dining, living room, and the long hall, I repaired several nail holes and cracks in the plaster with joint compound, but never sanded the walls. .
- I repaired the crack in the ceiling in the living room, but have yet to sand that either.
- I have random paint samples on the walls in both the dining and living rooms.
I had so many projects started, that it seemed overwhelming and I didn't know what to work on when. So I just shut down and didn't work on any of them. All of the projects have sat for over a year. Shameful, I know. Then my eldest son moved out of the house and the sight of his empty bedroom really got to me. I missed seeing his stuff in there. I missed him. And his smiling face.
And I settled into a bit of a depression for a couple of weeks. My bird had left the nest and emptiness was vast. Something was missing. And day by day, I could feel myself slipping into a dark place.
What I needed was a project. Something to keep me busy.
One might think that I would pick up one of the many works in progress, but one would be wrong. Instead, I set out to transform my sons Cowboys bedroom into a beautiful spare bedroom. And I have been focusing on finishing that room. Yes, I said the "F" word: FOCUS.
The ability to focus on finishing a project hasn't been a problem this time. I started on the room the day after Thanksgiving. I painted the ceiling, trim, and walls in that room and am currently stripping the hardwood floors. I hope to stain them THIS week. And the room is turning out so well, that we have decided to move into that room sometime after the start of the new year.
And I think I'm on to something. I need to force myself to stick to finishing one room at a time. None of this starting other projects in other rooms. As soon as the bedroom is complete, I'm going to take my focus into the dining room and finish what I started last year.
Baby, I'm back!